If you have problems related to premature ejaculation, you really need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and start looking for a solution, because they are out there to be found. I found a solution and I was really happy that I did, because it not only helped me keep my relationship intact, it pretty much changed my life completely for the better. When you are suffering from this condition, your self-esteem gets punished pretty badly. You feel embarrassed about your manhood and you feel completely insecure.
You also feel helpless and you do not know what to do about it. Many men wait long before dealing with this problem or never deal with it at all. This is because it is a very embarrassing problem that not many people want to talk about. There are men out there that do not want to go to talk to any medical experts or doctors because they do not want to talk about problems that they have in their sex lives. It is understandable, these are very personal matters, but you need to overcome these fears in order to help yourself.
I sought a solution on the Internet. I too was embarrassed of talking to doctors and I did not want to ask my friend for help, so I thought it would be much better to seek help from strangers. Also, I found out that there were many men out there that had this same problem and suddenly I had a lot of people to talk to about it. One of the drugs that many people were recommending to me online was Dapoxetine. This is a pill that you take about an hour or two before sex and it lets you last longer. I tried it and it really worked for me. I was lasting ten minutes in bed after the first month of taking it I used to last barely a minute.
It was such a relief. I do not need it anymore, but I did need it to build my confidence and to let myself try to improve in bed naturally. After about a half a year, I was able to learn how to control my ejaculation without the help of the pill and I was all back to normal. Of course, this is a drug and it is not to be played around with. If you do not have problems with premature ejaculation you should not use it. I know some people who try it in hopes of lasting hours, and it should not be played with because it is a potent drug. Of course, you should not be taking it with alcohol or any other drugs either because you can experience negative side effects if you try and combine the two.